Tea Etiquette: How to Sip Like Royalty (or at Least Look Like It)

🫖 Tea Etiquette: How to Sip Like Royalty (or at Least Look Like It)

At A Steep In Time, we welcome everyone—from pinky-up pros to first-time sippers. But if you’ve ever wondered, “Am I doing this right?” when it comes to Afternoon Tea, you’re not alone.

Let’s explore the charming world of tea etiquette—because knowing the little things can make your tea time even more delightful.

🍽️ Napkins Go… Where Exactly?

Place your napkin on your lap as soon as you're seated, folded in half with the crease toward your waist.

Need to step away? Set it neatly on your chair. Never toss it on the table until the end of service.

🍰 Which Tier Do I Start With?

When a three-tiered tray arrives, the traditional order is:

1. Bottom tier – Sandwiches

2. Middle tier – Scones with clotted cream & jam

3. Top tier – Sweets & desserts

This progression moves from savory to sweet, light to rich.

🫖 Pinky Up or Down?

Pinky down! It’s a myth that proper tea etiquette involves raising your pinky.Instead, hold your cup gently with thumb and index finger on the handle. Grace over gimmick.

☕ Stirring, the Right Way

When stirring in sugar or milk, go back and forth, not in circles. And stir softly—no clinking. You’re at tea, not ringing a bell.

🥄 Spoon Etiquette

After stirring, rest your spoon behind the cup on the saucer. Never leave it inside your cup. Trust us—your nose will thank you.

🗣️ Tea Is Not a Shouting Sport

Tea time is about savoring, not shouting. Keep conversation warm and easy. It’s your time to unplug and unwind.

💖 But The Real Rule Is...

Make yourself at home. We honor tradition, but we’re not strict about it. Whether you're dunking your scone, skipping the tiers, or sipping with both hands—what matters is that you enjoy yourself.

💌 Come Practice With Us

Tea etiquette is a lovely tradition—but it's also just a fun way to connect and enjoy. So whether you're brushing up on customs or just here for the clotted cream, we’ve got your seat ready.

📍 A Steep In Time7850 Brentwood Blvd, Brentwood, CA

🌐 www.asteepintime.com📞 925-420-3856

✨ Tea doesn’t have to be fancy—but it sure can feel that way. 🍵